How to validate God’s word in your marriage- [Rev. Dr Obi Peters]

Text: Psalm 119:102-107, vs 67, Gen 1:26, Mal 2:14

Prayer request: Father, make this week my week of change!

Declaration: “if I hear your amen, a miracle call will enter your phone this week!”


Anytime you see a man struggling in any part of his life, the reason is because that man has not kept God’s precept in that area of his life.

There is no marriage breakup or failure without the guy abiding to God’s principle for marriage. Anytime you see a home struggling, someone has gone astray. Before sickness, poverty and divorce came, there was a going astray. The plan of God for our lives is to make sure that the reason he brought us forth is not defeated.



Marriage was never given to us by God to end in divorce. The purpose of marriage is to end up a better you. Many marriages have failed because of lack of information, and not the devil.


The main reason why you got marriage in the first place is for you to exercise dominion over the devil; the bible says,”…one shall chase a thousand, two shall chase ten thousand.” Dominion in every area of life is the reason why God brought you together as husband and wife. The devil wants to attack your place of ruler-ship and dominion that is why he is attacking your marriage.

Mal 2:13- 14 [“And this have ye done again, covering the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping, and with crying out, insomuch that he regardeth not the offering any more, or receiveth [it] with good will at your hand. Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet [is] she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant.” (KJV)]


When we begin to establish the perfect understanding of our spouses, then dominion will be possible.

The reason why most men struggle is because they have broken the vows they made to their spouse in marriage. We are living in the days when certain cultures do not favour women in marriages; cultures that encages women in marital slavery, while the men dance around in promiscuity. This breakage of that vow has made God’s word of non effect in that man’s life.

When no one sees what’s going on in your marriage, God sees it.  If you are a man that thinks that nobody is seeing you, know this, there is a man seeing you- God. This also applies to women. You can not have open heaven when you are unfaithful.

Before you marry, please check him/her very well before you move on. If you are a man that likes big breast in women, then go for the woman that has big breast so as to avoid extra-marital infidelity.


Why is marriage

  1. Marriage is written. God is the principal witness of marriage. [Mal2:16 kjv]
  2. Marriage should not be broken. [I cor 7:39]
  3. You share gifts in common (women share their husband’s name. Men should also learn to share things with their wives too).
  4. Marriage is a seal


Men! If you know that your wife is your helper, then you wouldn’t want to see her suffer. God took a rib from under Adam’s heart to create Eve; this means that women are meant to protect your heart as a man.

If you are one with you wife, then you’ll stand by her, you’ll share in her in pains and a support her with all your life.

There is no marriage or home on earth without issues. If Christ loved you with all your weaknesses, why can’t you love your wife as Christ loved you? God hates divorce. So, no matter what you do, fight it.


There is no marriage made in heaven; every home has its own challenges.

Ingredients needed to make marriage successful:

[Songs of Solomon 4:1-9

Behold, thou [art] fair, my love; behold, thou [art] fair; thou [hast] doves' eyes within thy locks: thy hair [is] as a flock of goats, that appear from mount Gilead. Thy teeth [are] like a flock [of sheep that are even] shorn, which came up from the washing; whereof every one bear twins, and none [is] barren among them. Thy lips [are] like a thread of scarlet, and thy speech [is] comely: thy temples [are] like a piece of a pomegranate within thy locks. Thy neck [is] like the tower of David builded for an armoury, whereon there hang a thousand bucklers, all shields of mighty men. Thy two breasts [are] like two young roes that are twins, which feed among the lilies. Until the day break, and the shadows flee away, I will get me to the mountain of myrrh, and to the hill of frankincense. Thou [art] all fair, my love; [there is] no spot in thee. Come with me from Lebanon, [my] spouse, with me from Lebanon: look from the top of Amana, from the top of Shenir and Hermon, from the lions' dens, from the mountains of the leopards. Thou hast ravished my heart, my sister, [my] spouse; thou hast ravished my heart with one of thine eyes, with one chain of thy neck.(KJV)


As a woman, be creative with your sex life. There is no iota of sin in marriage. “Marriage is honorable with the bed undefiled.”

Stop tying wrapper always in the house whenever you are with your husband; learn to wear a skimpy dress that arouses him.

Ensure that you have a culture of neatness. Most men are the reason why some ladies have fibroid today, because some men will wear boxers for two weeks. Men, please, change your boxers daily. Once every month, spouses should go for check up to examine their health status.


Who is your wife? Your wife must be seen as your sister, not your slave. Wives, see your husbands as your brother



Lord, whatsoever that is working against me because I broke the vow of my marriage, Lord, I repent of them today. Let the hand of God fight that battle and restore me back.

Add comment

Security code

The Series...

             Oct 16th, 2016

 Service on "validating God's word in marriage"


NMN-SPECIAL [upcoming event...]


 29th  NOV. - DEC5th   2021

e-BOOKS available



Please wait


Save the DATE  22nd, 23rd, 24th & 25th


Home         |    Sermon

About us      |    Church units

Ministries        |    Prayer request

Daughters of Grace   |   Testimony

School      |   Service time

Locate us on map     |   Gallery

Marshal Partners     |   Give Online

Plan a visit    |   Events/Programs


Support - forum  



Follow & Like our page